Self-Hosting Your Email Sounds Romantic. It’s Actually Hell.
Self-hosting email sounds like digital sovereignty β your data, your rules, your server. But the real challenge isn’t setup, it’s deliverability. Google, Microsoft, and Yahoo run opaque reputation systems that decide if your messages reach inboxes or vanish silently. You’re not hosting a server; you’re moving into a neighborhood where the HOA is run by trillion-dollar companies.